October 23, 2011

How to Overcome the Dread of Change to Gain Private Development?(II)

By Elkin Arriero


2) Work the fear



As we saw in the previous section, to manage the feelings that appear suddenly, like fear, the very first thing to do is identify it. The tendency of the general public is to let these emotions take hold of them or repress them. We will not achieve control fear if we give free reign and let them dominate us, but neither we are going to do it if we repress it, as it's going to be inactive and will appear repeatedly in our lives.

It is a good idea to stop for an instant and see the emotion that overwhelms us. If we see punctiliously what occurs, just from a distance, we find folks or scenarios which cause us the most powerful reactions. So understand the mechanism of our feelings and we find its origin in the repeated patterns.

At that moment we will begin to become privy to the circumstances that've been handled us and we will be more close start to change our behavior. This will give us the chance, from a broader awareness, to find new outlets, to market personal development.



3) Understand in the life is standard the change



Life is movement, so we are destined to move through different stages, we will be able to just resolve to face the crisis. Not to mention their own crises of evolutionary development such as adolescence, middle age and old age, own existential becoming brings whit this states of stormy search being, to beat our freedom and clashes with our boundaries and conditions that compromise our private development. These issues would not happen if we limited ourselves to be, but most wish to live, and live we become co-creators of fact. We will not be able to stop these changes because they are part of life.(Ley de Atraccion)

4) Distinguish the change the chance to improve



You've got to know the way to interpret the changes as a chance to improve our capacities and learn about ourselves. we must guage them as an opportunity to change something we do not like or to appreciate the stuff we have occurred. The changes are beneficial for private development because they give us the chance to challenge ourselves and improve ourselves. Go ahead, because life is change, movement and unpredictability.AtreveteAVivir



In life the single thing don't changes is the change, to human beings cost us face the new and out of our comfortable zone nonetheless , implementing these tips you can put the past behind and face the challenges of the present with optimism, always with the confidence about what is approaching it can bring better prospects for your life and enhance your personal development.




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