On the way to the realisation humanity wants to beat barriers that slow your private development, one of them is the inclination to live psychologically in the past.
Go thru life loading a massive equipage , usually made-for unpleasant or miserable memories and negative feelings we hold in relation to the past.
We see a tale that illustrates us this way of life:
In the war 2 young mates were sent to the battlefront , some time the enemy were taken them prisoners and spent two years in a concentration camp. When the war finished they were released and every one continued his life in different places. A decade after the war they met again after taking a massive hug, one asserts to another:
- Hey, I forgot everything that occurred to us. I forgot once as never it had occurred. And you friend?
- I do not - answered the other bitterly showing I will never forget it . There isn't a day that I do not hate those wardens intensely.
The pal replied:
- It's a shame! I just spent 2 years as a captive, but "you continue prisoner."
When we will not let go the painful past to embitter us, we lose the illusion wears us down and we let to enjoy life. This mechanism is an evasive resource, that rejects the probabilities of each moment can give us and separates us from the path of our personal development.
Regularly we feel very angry to someone for something made us or something that they had to make for us and they didn't it and it could have made a serious difference in our lives. We also feel bitterness when one or both folks treated us badly when we were kids or they deserted us .
However horrible the events were you lived, you've got to accept which has passed and there is nothing you can do to erase it from your life.
To looking into the past, we are perpetuating the pain in our minds. It is well to learn from the past, what's wrong is to live haunted by those events. we remain a defenseless victim when we permit something occurred during the past be the main thought haunts in our minds.
Many people tend to live feeling victims of circumstances or behaviours of others and this way excuse their incapacity to restart responsibility for your life. They wish to live in sourness and passivity, to avoid being forced to show the bravery it takes to turn the page and start again. Willingly refuse to grow up and paralyze any chance of achieving a good private development.
Irrespective of the reason for our angriness, what happens is that we do not excuse and that's precisely the reason why this event during the past accounts for all of our thoughts. This will affect our psychological health and we'll keep improving basic skills and abilities that are a part of our private development, unless we learn how to forgive and free ourselves .AtreveteAVivir
Commit yourself to not repeat past errors at the same time you forget all the old rancor . Leniency frees you from the needless suffering due to emotional discomfort and unproductive thoughts. Stop living in the past and concentrate on the current time, it is all you need to live a happy and healthy.
Regularly when we think that we have forgiven a situation or that you've already forgotten, we see that isn't it , the day that a specified event makes us overreact or nonsensical by the bad emotion that we still have outstanding to deal with . We have to take the courageous call to release the past and forgive. It's the only way to live a full life and attain the highest objective of human beings: your personal development.(Ley de Atraccion)
If we stop living during the past and we may cancel lots of our memory files, would not exist so many fears, we might be ingenuous and genuine , noble and thankful, like kids. We wouldn't blame any person, would hate not, and we'd be human beings more happy and more productive.
"Give yourself some time to grow, right now; you have got to take the rod and to lead with it. This is your day. Live it like it were the last of your existence." Og Mandino.
Go thru life loading a massive equipage , usually made-for unpleasant or miserable memories and negative feelings we hold in relation to the past.
We see a tale that illustrates us this way of life:
In the war 2 young mates were sent to the battlefront , some time the enemy were taken them prisoners and spent two years in a concentration camp. When the war finished they were released and every one continued his life in different places. A decade after the war they met again after taking a massive hug, one asserts to another:
- Hey, I forgot everything that occurred to us. I forgot once as never it had occurred. And you friend?
- I do not - answered the other bitterly showing I will never forget it . There isn't a day that I do not hate those wardens intensely.
The pal replied:
- It's a shame! I just spent 2 years as a captive, but "you continue prisoner."
When we will not let go the painful past to embitter us, we lose the illusion wears us down and we let to enjoy life. This mechanism is an evasive resource, that rejects the probabilities of each moment can give us and separates us from the path of our personal development.
Regularly we feel very angry to someone for something made us or something that they had to make for us and they didn't it and it could have made a serious difference in our lives. We also feel bitterness when one or both folks treated us badly when we were kids or they deserted us .
However horrible the events were you lived, you've got to accept which has passed and there is nothing you can do to erase it from your life.
To looking into the past, we are perpetuating the pain in our minds. It is well to learn from the past, what's wrong is to live haunted by those events. we remain a defenseless victim when we permit something occurred during the past be the main thought haunts in our minds.
Many people tend to live feeling victims of circumstances or behaviours of others and this way excuse their incapacity to restart responsibility for your life. They wish to live in sourness and passivity, to avoid being forced to show the bravery it takes to turn the page and start again. Willingly refuse to grow up and paralyze any chance of achieving a good private development.
Irrespective of the reason for our angriness, what happens is that we do not excuse and that's precisely the reason why this event during the past accounts for all of our thoughts. This will affect our psychological health and we'll keep improving basic skills and abilities that are a part of our private development, unless we learn how to forgive and free ourselves .AtreveteAVivir
Commit yourself to not repeat past errors at the same time you forget all the old rancor . Leniency frees you from the needless suffering due to emotional discomfort and unproductive thoughts. Stop living in the past and concentrate on the current time, it is all you need to live a happy and healthy.
Regularly when we think that we have forgiven a situation or that you've already forgotten, we see that isn't it , the day that a specified event makes us overreact or nonsensical by the bad emotion that we still have outstanding to deal with . We have to take the courageous call to release the past and forgive. It's the only way to live a full life and attain the highest objective of human beings: your personal development.(Ley de Atraccion)
If we stop living during the past and we may cancel lots of our memory files, would not exist so many fears, we might be ingenuous and genuine , noble and thankful, like kids. We wouldn't blame any person, would hate not, and we'd be human beings more happy and more productive.
"Give yourself some time to grow, right now; you have got to take the rod and to lead with it. This is your day. Live it like it were the last of your existence." Og Mandino.
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