May 26, 2010

Tips And Tricks On How To Use The Law Of Attraction

By Trevor Johnson

It may surprise you to find out that is is not simply physical attraction that draws in our friends and partners. There are many reasons, and theories behind why we as people are attracted to each other. So, as we continue, you will be enlightened at tips and tricks on how to use the law of attraction to benefit you in gaining new friends, and perhaps a new romance.

Studies have shown that part of our draw toward one another is physical, but not in the way that you might suspect. It is based on face shapes, body height, degree of hair, smell, etc. These aspects vary in men and women of course. It goes back to the old adage "there is someone for everyone."

Our attraction to one another is not simple, and there are some things we do not seem to even realize. One thing is sure, you are what you believe, if you know you are attractive, then you are attractive.

Cultural ideas and social values, do have somewhat of a place in our decisions in what is attractive, but the good news is, our heart seems to win in the end. We are more drawn to our inner desires than cultural or social influences.

We have needs as women and men for certain types of things in partners. Research has shown that women tend to seek men for protection and a means of support, and men tend to seek youth, as it represents fertility to them. These needs seem to be rather primitive.

Pheromones may play a role in how attractive we are to one another, even though the subject is still under some controversy. Pheromones trigger our brains regarding each other's reproductive schedules. Research has stated that men and women smell differently at different times during the month, and that most of this attraction goes on in our subconscious.

A great personality will get you everywhere. Everyone seems to be attracted to the biggest smile in the room and you can be that smile. Be a positive person, someone that people want to be around. Try accentuating your physical features with make up, perfume, or a great outfit, etc. Anything that makes you feel good about yourself will show on your face.

Use what you have to your advantage. Accentuate the positive, and do not focus on anything negative. Good luck now that you are prepared with tips and tricks on how to use the law of attraction.

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