November 24, 2009

Avoid Chaos -- Learn To Make Decisions

By Bob Proctor

How many of us have had those, "if only" moments that haunt us for years? Don't you just hate that? Many times our dream lies just beyond our will to pursue it-and indecision is the only thing that stops us from realizing it.

Decisions are as much a part of living as breathing is. It carries purpose life needs in order to function at its highest capacity. Your dream may be to build wealth or a certain relationship-whatever it may be, decisions can change your life.

Decision-making organizes your mind, which effectively helps to bring you to the course of action you must take for you to reach your goals. It sounds simple until you get hit by valid reasons for not making decisions-take care that it will not hold you back from enjoying an amazing quality of life you can have.

What is indecision? Indecision is the lack of ability to choose a stance and stick to it. People underestimate how indecisiveness can largely impact the way we live. If we are constantly unsure of what to do and how to feel, emotional and mental wars will always cause us stress.

Experts on this matter also define indecisiveness as ambivalence. Having conflicting feelings on a particular matter will hinder you from taking the appropriate steps to reach your goals. Ambivalence will make you unproductive and frustrated-the opposite quality of life you should be having.

The moment you catch yourself in such a state, seize these thoughts and consciously bring yourself back to your goal by making the decision to do what's right. If this is to build wealth, then do not veer away from the things you know will help you accomplish that. You can change your life, but you need to do something about it.

Do not feel helpless with adverse situations you might temporarily find yourself in. Your decisions should be resolved internally, generally independent of all circumstantial factors. You can build wealth beyond what people expect of you; all you need is strength of will to see it through.

Remember-- control your destiny by managing your thought patterns. Purpose life improving decisions that will set you on exciting adventures and the most rewarding experiences you always wanted to have.

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