February 28, 2012

Lack of honesty leads away you from your private growth (I)

By Elkin Arriero


Truth means to act with honesty and sincerity in all the circumstances of our lives, whether they watch us or not. Much has been discussed about how duplicity or the lie stops our personal development.

If the personal development has as aim free you of the interior stumbling blocks that somehow, prevent you from achieving a better version of yourself, How do you think you can do that cheating and cheating others? How could you improve as a human being if your life is controlled by the absence of truth?

Why folks lie?

1) Why do not want to damage the sensations of the people they like.

For example:

Mate A: How do I look?

Friend B: He asserts, "You look great."

Think: "You seem like a sack of potatoes with legs."

2) Because they lack self confidence and need the acceptance of others, then lie to pretend to be better than they are and gain approval of others.

3) To draw attention because otherwise stay unseen.

4) Because they lack the bravery to face the implications of speaking the truth and deal with the anger of others. As an example, admit that they were unfaithful to their partner.

5) For illness. Mythomania is a psychological disorder that is pathologically lie to repetitively twisting reality and making it more acceptable. This feature is connected with dreadful personality afflictions could be related to two kinds of characters: first, the needy to guesstimate, and secondly, those with hyperthymic personality disorder, It is to claim, those with a mood really high (shallow, scatterbrained and impatient). (Ley de Atraccion)

Also see how a few of the people finish up believing their own lies, the subconscious can be programmed by repetition, so folks make their lies into truths of both repeat a tale over and over again. Nothing can separate us from the trail of developing more personal and lying to ourselves. Degrade us as humans when we can not even be honest within.

The issue with lying is that, apart from all ethical points to consider, doesn't work in the long run. Once it has exposed a habitual liar, everything goes bad, folk won't take him seriously as a person and it'll be not possible to regain the trust of others. EduynLabino

As Abraham Lincoln expounded (former U.S. President) "You can fool all for a period of time, you can trick someone forever , but you cannot fool everyone forever."

Thru simple tips may help you get shot of the bad habit of lying, that your actions may apply consistency with who you wish to be and you can reach a higher state in your process of private development.




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