October 30, 2010

Learning How To Manage Your Emotions After Your Child's Revelation That He Or She Is Gay

By Paul Smith

Of course, you may be aware of this but you still find it too difficult to accept the revelation because you are uncomfortable with their lifestyle.

During this situation, you can seek the help of the Sedona Method. This method allows you to manage your emotions at times of crisis thus you will be able to accept your children as who they are and what they want to become. You can learn this method at lettinggo.tv which has a helpful trailer video that can help you release your negative feelings.

How Sedona Method Helps

If you want to move on, you need to show not only your support but also love to your child on what they want in life without ever condoning their choices. You will find it very difficult at first but it is always probable if you just let go of your negative feelings.

The thing here is that the more willing you are to let go of your refusal to accept your child's lifestyle, the easier it is for you to have a good relationship with him or her.

If you let go, you minimize sabotaging your relationship with your children and that you also stop yourself from obliging your son or daughter to defend their choice for their lifestyle which causes them to cling to it more.

As soon as you release your negative emotions over the situation, you will be able to talk about your child's sexual preference openly without eliciting them to act defensive during the entire time. Moreover, you will also be able to give your support to them in an unconditional manner.

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