Mid-life crisis or not, everyone has something he wants to fix about himself. It may be a physical trait or a mental characteristic. Since change is hard and most people shy away from hard work, these people will instead wallow in self-pity and never take the steps to re-create themselves. If only these people had heard about the laws of attraction. If they had, then they would find it very easy to accept themselves as they are or make the changes they had always wanted to make. The laws of attraction are a simple way to re-create yourself in your own ideal image and then teach others to view you in that way as well.
The process of self re-creation may seem very daunting. After all, you can't see your inner self, so how can you know if you are making the right sort of changes? To re-create yourself you need to spend a lot of mental energy first learning about yourself and redefining what you know.
You may think that you know yourself, after all you do spend every minute of the day in your own company. However, how many of us really know ourselves? I mean really know ourselves.
It is harder than you think. Most of our life is taken up running errands, meeting deadlines, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, and - of course - sleeping. If we do get a few moments to ourselves, we generally turn on the television and turn off our brains. In order to get to know yourself, you have to take time to spend alone.
Take a walk or spend an hour in the bathtub with your phone on silent. Think about what you like about yourself and what you wish you could change.
After you have spent a good deal of quality time getting to know yourself, you need to start thinking of yourself in a positive light. This can actually be a very hard task. We are our own best critics. Traits that we would never even notice in other people become a blight on our self-perception. In order to utilize the laws of attraction we need to become attractive to ourselves.
Every time you notice a negative trait in yourself, find a way to rephrase it in a positive light. If you keep consciously doing this for months it will eventually become second nature. You will learn to think positively of yourself. Once you can do that, it is time to let the laws of attraction loose.
So what are you waiting for? Now you know that if you can create a positive self-perception you will also be able to create a positive image of yourself in the minds of others. The laws of attraction are all about recreating yourself in an affirmative light.
The process of self re-creation may seem very daunting. After all, you can't see your inner self, so how can you know if you are making the right sort of changes? To re-create yourself you need to spend a lot of mental energy first learning about yourself and redefining what you know.
You may think that you know yourself, after all you do spend every minute of the day in your own company. However, how many of us really know ourselves? I mean really know ourselves.
It is harder than you think. Most of our life is taken up running errands, meeting deadlines, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, and - of course - sleeping. If we do get a few moments to ourselves, we generally turn on the television and turn off our brains. In order to get to know yourself, you have to take time to spend alone.
Take a walk or spend an hour in the bathtub with your phone on silent. Think about what you like about yourself and what you wish you could change.
After you have spent a good deal of quality time getting to know yourself, you need to start thinking of yourself in a positive light. This can actually be a very hard task. We are our own best critics. Traits that we would never even notice in other people become a blight on our self-perception. In order to utilize the laws of attraction we need to become attractive to ourselves.
Every time you notice a negative trait in yourself, find a way to rephrase it in a positive light. If you keep consciously doing this for months it will eventually become second nature. You will learn to think positively of yourself. Once you can do that, it is time to let the laws of attraction loose.
So what are you waiting for? Now you know that if you can create a positive self-perception you will also be able to create a positive image of yourself in the minds of others. The laws of attraction are all about recreating yourself in an affirmative light.
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