Why does it seem that everybody else is making a fortune on the internet and you cant even make a dime? They seem to make money and you cant. What is wrong with that?
Are you thinking that nothing ever works for you, so you might as well give up? Well don't give up. Step back and look at how you are where you are and why all those things did not happen the way you thought they should have and how you can change the effects in the future.
Some time ago, you tried something. Probably you read a really great recommendation or one of the testimonials that are on products so you knew it must work. You had never tried it before so you believed what someone said was true.
So you tried that awesome product that you read about and were seriously disappointed. Did you give it a day, a week, or even a month before you threw up your hands and shouted to the heavens "This doesn't work?" If it was a diet product, is your body just like theirs? Or do you have the internet skills that the internet super star had, or do you ___ (well you fill in the blank)?
By declaring, "This doesn't work," you created the reality of it. It didn't work for you. But maybe the time wasn't right for the results to work for you. You start to look at all the events that didn't work right for you and think that is now the truth. Nothing will ever work. And nothing could be farther from the truth.
If you constantly compare your results to the results of others, it almost becomes a competition (you gotta be better than they are, or if they can do it, you can do it better), and I can almost guarantee you that wont work. You are already working against yourself! You may not yet automatically expect failure, but you have it as an option, and perhaps even a probability based on your previous experiences. And once you let the thought of failure in, it grows and becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If your parents were like mine, they wanted to prepare me for the "real" world. The world where nothing good ever comes of trying to "better" yourself. Talk about defeatist! I'm surprised I ever became a success with that groundwork. But I learned. Just because "bettering" myself and becoming more than I started out as didn't work for them, sure didn't mean that I had to stay where I was. I could get better and become a success. Things actually worked for me when I tried them!
There is nothing so hard to do as to really believe that you can "Do it!" After all, it has never worked before. But that is a pattern; and all patterns " call them habits " can be broken. But you have to pay attention to what you are thinking. Every time you hear your mind say, "I can't," "It won't work," STOP. Rewind that defeatist tape and start over, "I can," "I will," and "Wow, that wasn't that hard!"
Give yourself permission to succeed. You have been giving yourself permission to fail for years. Don't expect the same results as everyone else. If they lost 100 pounds on that diet, be happy and SUCCESSFUL if you lose 10 pounds. Did you really follow the directions in that step-by-step guide or did you fudge here and there and think you knew it better? Go back and try it, step-by-step, give yourself permission to feel elated if you make $20. If you do, that $20 will grow! So will you!
Are you thinking that nothing ever works for you, so you might as well give up? Well don't give up. Step back and look at how you are where you are and why all those things did not happen the way you thought they should have and how you can change the effects in the future.
Some time ago, you tried something. Probably you read a really great recommendation or one of the testimonials that are on products so you knew it must work. You had never tried it before so you believed what someone said was true.
So you tried that awesome product that you read about and were seriously disappointed. Did you give it a day, a week, or even a month before you threw up your hands and shouted to the heavens "This doesn't work?" If it was a diet product, is your body just like theirs? Or do you have the internet skills that the internet super star had, or do you ___ (well you fill in the blank)?
By declaring, "This doesn't work," you created the reality of it. It didn't work for you. But maybe the time wasn't right for the results to work for you. You start to look at all the events that didn't work right for you and think that is now the truth. Nothing will ever work. And nothing could be farther from the truth.
If you constantly compare your results to the results of others, it almost becomes a competition (you gotta be better than they are, or if they can do it, you can do it better), and I can almost guarantee you that wont work. You are already working against yourself! You may not yet automatically expect failure, but you have it as an option, and perhaps even a probability based on your previous experiences. And once you let the thought of failure in, it grows and becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
If your parents were like mine, they wanted to prepare me for the "real" world. The world where nothing good ever comes of trying to "better" yourself. Talk about defeatist! I'm surprised I ever became a success with that groundwork. But I learned. Just because "bettering" myself and becoming more than I started out as didn't work for them, sure didn't mean that I had to stay where I was. I could get better and become a success. Things actually worked for me when I tried them!
There is nothing so hard to do as to really believe that you can "Do it!" After all, it has never worked before. But that is a pattern; and all patterns " call them habits " can be broken. But you have to pay attention to what you are thinking. Every time you hear your mind say, "I can't," "It won't work," STOP. Rewind that defeatist tape and start over, "I can," "I will," and "Wow, that wasn't that hard!"
Give yourself permission to succeed. You have been giving yourself permission to fail for years. Don't expect the same results as everyone else. If they lost 100 pounds on that diet, be happy and SUCCESSFUL if you lose 10 pounds. Did you really follow the directions in that step-by-step guide or did you fudge here and there and think you knew it better? Go back and try it, step-by-step, give yourself permission to feel elated if you make $20. If you do, that $20 will grow! So will you!
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