April 3, 2012

Ask Yourself what is Special about you and be proud of it

By Liz Hunter


The belief in yourself is crucial, if you want to be successful in life. If you don't believe in yourself, who else would, became a proverb. It is strange that most people believe that others are better than they are. What they do, they incessantly compare with what others do and mean that what others do is better, instead of focusing on their work and doing their best.

Many women believe that other women are more attractive than they are and compare their look with the look of models and actresses. They see photos which are retouched by professional photographers. Models and stars wear heavy makeup, which was produced for film and photograph. Would any women wear professional makeup and be photographed from a professional, she would look as gorgeous as the superstar she so much envies because of her look. Why don't women see all they are?

Each person is unique and has something special about himself/herself and this is what you should be proud of. If you have difficulty to see the full value of what you are, write down everything which is great about you, all that you do well.

Artist is used to receive positive and negative critics. Some are taking both kinds of critics lightly and others are taking it so severe that they despair. The distinction is the self belief these celebrities have.

What is it that most people are questioning if what they do is good enough, if they are looking appealing enough, if they are clothed well enough... It is a need of confidence.

There are people who are so self-confident that nothing can stop them from being very successful. They just go ahead doing whatever they have planned. There are women, who are ugly, but they are so confident about themselves that they are fascinating and appear pretty in a way, which is above what is basically regarded gorgeous. It is their radiation of being self-assured about themselves. They know their value and they know that it doesn't have to be beauty.

How can you change the dilemma of being insecure, if what you do is good enough and if you are beautiful enough? Good question, right?

Part of personal improvement is to boost your belief in yourself through becoming attentive of who you are.

Write down everything you like about yourself. Then think about what someone else would value about you. What would your friends say is the best trait of you? What do you think would the people, you often meet, say about you? And then call them and ask them. You will be surprised how wonderfully they think about you and that the way you look is the least important.

You will say, well others always talk nicely, when you ask them. Right, but they also believe that you are better in many ways than they are.




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